Tuesday, February 2.
Three days since I spent time with Park, and I feel like I’ll be fine if he isn’t a big part of my life anymore. I’ve seen glimpses of him of course, since we are in the same community and have some tasks to complete together. Still, I’ve probably seen him a total 30 minutes these past few days, and I’ve spent none of that time actually conversing with him. I do feel sad when I look at him and know that we don’t have anything between us, but I’m not as heartbroken as I felt last year when I was in a position to cut off all contact with him.
I ate dinner with some of my friends after physics class today. We have this ongoing joke between a cute guy in our group, Stan, and me, since they all found out I just had my birthday a few weeks ago and that I’m legal now. He put his arms around me when we’re walking back to campus after, and I actually do feel like he has a thing for me. He does keep much of a distance when we’re talking, and he glances my way more than a friend should. He has super blue eyes. I met him over last summer, and we’ve grown closer since then. I have to admit that I sort of had a crush on him when we first met, because he is pretty cute, although Tess doesn’t think so. I totally have a type, but I’ll probably talk about all that in another post.
My sort of best friend Brian dropped me home again today, as he usually does after physics. He’s in the process of replacing Lee in my life. He gave me a belated birthday gift, and when I opened it, it was the sweetest thing ever. The first thing I saw was a teddy bear, with a bow on its neck and everything. He also got me yoshinoya coupons, a subway gift card, and one of those AMC gold tickets. Oh, and a banana. It’s probably the best, most thoughtful gift I received this year. He wrote me a card, explaining all the gifts (they’re pretty much all inside jokes), and telling me how grateful he met me. He talks about how I keep taking rain checks on a birthday dinner he promised, which I actually have been canceling on purpose lately because I feel as if he’s going to ask me out then. He reminded me that we should go snowboarding soon. He told me that all that was a gag gift when he handed me the gift wrapped box, but it was perfect. It made me think about how great of a guy he is, and why I’m not into him instead of Park. Truth be told, at that moment, I sort of didn’t feel anything for Park anymore and it made me question whether I should really straighten out everything with him or just let it fade out like it already is.
I feel quite confused about my feelings. Writing all this down now, I actually want to give this thing with Park a try. I heard my dad talk to my mom over facetime about how I went on a date with Park, and how he thinks there’s something going on there. I must have had a reason for feeling good that my mom knows, and the fact that I was the one who hinted to my mom that she should question my dad about my recent activities.
I really wish I never let this thing with Park get so far. He doesn’t treat me as well as other guys who I know fancies me. I’ve always believed that I fall for nice guys, but upon reflection, I realise that it’s not true. Park is a nice guy, but how nice is he really for calling what we’ve been doing as “hanging out” for the past few months?